Repeating yourself
Thinking of asking Sarah what she does for work.
You already asked her that last Tuesday — she's a paediatric nurse doing night shifts this month.
Remembered from 12 days of chat
Core features
Ashkam Memory
Most advice forgets the moment you close the app. Ashkam keeps track of every person you’re talking to, so it can catch the things you’d miss yourself.
Explore Ashkam MemoryRepeating yourself
Thinking of asking Sarah what she does for work.
You already asked her that last Tuesday — she's a paediatric nurse doing night shifts this month.
Remembered from 12 days of chat
Mixing people up
Should I ask Emma how the Lisbon trip went?
That was Maya's trip, not Emma's. Emma's the one who just adopted the greyhound — ask about him instead.
Keeps every person separate
Remembering what matters
Second date with Noah this Friday. Any ideas?
He mentioned he's vegetarian and hates loud bars. A quiet small-plates place would land better than drinks.
Details you mentioned once, weeks ago
Explore tone, timing and context without treating a short message as proof of how someone feels.
Use AI dating reply suggestions as a starting point for clearer, more natural communication—not as a script you have to follow.
Make your profile clearer and more specific, with honest details that give someone a natural place to start a conversation.
Return to useful details, think of a few natural questions and make space to listen when you meet.
Inside the app
Explore the app, one screen at a time. Swipe or scroll to see more.

The updated Ashkam home screen

Remember details about every connection

Profile-specific first messages

Reply options in your voice

Photo scores and feedback

Framing, lighting and crop guidance

Photos, bio and prompts reviewed together

Explore how your connection fits

A calm place to start with what’s on your mind.

Understand the tone, signals and conversation.

Find words that still sound like you.

Keep the people you’re dating and their context together.

Remember important details about each connection.

Talk through your dating situation with context.

See how conversations and connections develop.

Understand what your dating profile communicates.
A reply is a moment. A connection is a story. Ashkam is built for the whole story.
Let Ashkam help you understand the conversation, remember the details and make your next move with confidence.
Coming soon to iOS and Android.